KF&MS

The PL E D G E… the Truth… the Reality! To each of my “bookmarked buddies”: If you don’t appear here as friend: you listed me in F A C E B O O K as “friends” no need to feel frustrated. or feel you are not in list every now and then! I arrive in a month to meet Mr K! We have challenges to meet, to achieve in perfection. If you see HIM here in “my Photos” accept our duo; none of you, nor can any event stand still our walk to attain targets we decided in equity, my goal is HIS success, I ask reward as full recognition, as presence! Not a virtual SIMS city gamble: Our Relationship, is not given to speculations, gossip, calumny! I take him on the wings of an eagle, riding the road for successful career. If you are into the Town Gossip we won’t reveal our duet, we Ain’t into gossip, as we sternly welcome people who travesties truth: It took us a long way to attain the point where we stand, Now, we go forth to success, to accomplish our alliance. Be told, if you belong to his close circle, I hope you relate to our duet as friends: Dun’t act mediocre wicked gamers do! We are who we are: we walk forth our Challenge as we envision it: be honest with each of us, accept us as a duet or leave us alone! Respect us as we respect you! Cheers Miki ((mikael.urbach@Gmail.com)) ((http://mysian.blogspot.com)) N O T A B E N E . . . 1-If you can’t tolerate nor accept this FACT, if you are unable to cope with realities of Life: accept it, it’s major turn in both lives: if you negate US, we bid you Good Bye asking you to leave us ad none! 2- DUN’T interfere, hinder, harm any of us we will answer forthrightly! Our time is precious, Don’t waste yours for wicked games, we severe contact from any who won’t respect us: We have no time for childish, kinder-garden play. 1. At what age do you wish to marry? It depends from…my Elected 2. What is your most favourite thing to do? Reading books, watch movies, sit on seashore with my Sunny Boy, enjoy the ebb of the sea, sip a good glass of wine, with the stars as blanket. 3. If you have a close close friend since childhood who loves to take away whatever you like, including guys/girls, and he/she always wins, will you still consider him/her your friend? I all time was a conqueror so I try to conquer his friendship or even go deeper than friends 4. What would you give up in return to eat all you want in the world and not get fat? Humm not problematic when you cook nice food, I care for nice curves… slender figures and silk like skin. 5. Is there someone in your heart right now? Yes (ONE) share my heart, rebels from this ideas, he knows we take a step and bring a brink of history. 6. Do you believe you can survive without money? Hum money for some is freedom, for me a mean to live life. 7. What are you afraid to lose the most? My honesty, Trust from people! 8. What do you feel like doing, right now? S……..x love I want it so warmly… 9. If there was someone that you love, would you confess to him/her? If I know it is a shared sentiment, if it bring any breakthrough I explain my motives, ask him to agree, take him with me… 10. List out 3 good points of the person who tagged you. care, preciseness, love-hood… 11. What are the requirements that you wish from your other half? Require honesty, duet minded mind, help him to achieve this step, without feeling ashamed… 12. What is the thing that will make you think he/she is bad? B me for a moment of blur-joy, abandon us for a illusive adventure! 13. What are the characteristics of your dream job? I have my Dream Job, I would do all for my chosen to attain his DreamJob, attain the top as we together can be a force. 14. If you had a choice to choose between saving yourself or the person you love the most, who would it be? and Why? I would save my 1ne. Each time you do save someone you save yourself, this brings you an inner light…. We are witness one to each and others. I wish this light to in each of us, I want this light to be shiny diamond! 15. If you had a choice to be rich or happy, which one would you pick? Happy… 16. If you have a chance, which part of your character you would like to change? My stubbornness, my possessive side, my eagerness to share all with my elected 17. Who is the person that you can share all your problems with? My intimate friends… so few in number. 18. How do you see yourself in 10 years of time? Having achieved a dream, see my partner successful, happy, a light in his eyes: It would my highest reward. 19. What is the one thing you love about yourself? My sensitivity, my good will, the way I act in equity with my elected. 20. If you can bring only ONE thing along with you to another world, what would it be? Mr X… Books and Music we both love! 1. If your lover betrayed you, what will your reaction be? Hum retaliate against my rivals who twisted his mind, who enticed him to act shallow. As to my lover: compassion. 22. If you can have a dream to come true, what would it be? Repeat: achieve my Dream, Adobe my Mr X, make out of our duet an example to follow, assist others to attain that level of harmony. 23. Whose butt would you like to kick? all the ravens that hinder my approach to …? 24. What would you do with a billion dollars? Share it, make people happy? Buy what we dream about all those years 25. Pretty but fat/Ugly but slim, which one would you prefer? None I am too much aesthetic minded Which is more blessed, loving someone or being loved by someone? Loved by someone 27. How long do you intend to wait for someone you really love? Not so patient not so waiting… 28. If the person you secretly like is already attached, what would you do? If he is attached? Why flirt but if it is a stand still well I take a chance: it’s challenging I would conquer his heart till he say yes! 29. If you like to act with someone, who will it be? your gf/bf or an actress/actor? Act is a shallow attitude, with friends you be yourself, they will respect you with your highs and flaws: remember to be humble, morally honest! 30. Will you invite for Ex bf/gf to your wedding dinner? Depends who is the ex? 31. How would you see yourself in ten years time? Happy? Having achieved my Dream 32. What's your fear? Staying alone, being betrayed, loose myself, fail … 33. What kind of person do you think the person who tagged you is? People who like to know me biblically, friends who hardly know me but want to take a further step, even if sometimes they are scared to push my door. 34. Would you rather be single and rich or married but poor? Poverty is a way to start from scratch, rich is to be blind to efforts you have to do to climb towards le life degrees and attain summits 35. What's the first thing you do when you wake up? See the angel face of my sunny boy, and wait for his wake nad get his morning hug and see his first morning smile 36. Would you give all in a relationship? Depends, If we go for a LTR, I would categorize this way one will have all; nearly all but not what I wanted to achieve all my life? 37. If you fall in love with two people simultaneously, who would you pick? That iniquity, isn’t fair you can’t invest two people equally and promise the same to two person in all case sometimes the choice come after a no go, 38. Would you forgive and forget no matter how horrible a thing the someone has done? Forget is impossible human mind might be volatile, mistakes are human we all times tends to see the neighbour garden, taste his cooking! At the end people returns home, so forgiveness is a must… isn’t it what Lao Tzeu teaches us? 39. Do you prefer being single or having a relationship? Definitely into relationship it’s so challenging and essential, It is the essence of man not to be alone?

 

infatuation or love?

I think people tend often confuse between infatuation for love. Unfortunately, it takes experience before anyone differentiates the two.

 

I guess it's more difficult for gay people because it's exacerbated by an acute sense of loneliness, of being ostracized by society. Or fear

 

I've been into relationships B4. I was in love with the idea of love, OTHER guys often LOOK AT may be sex for love or artificial love, some go all ways, like a dance

 

I wanna love someone whom attracted me and able to turn me on!

Who I feel excited when I SMS or E-mail him.

Someone, who can make me on my laptop just to chat with him.

Someone whom I can call "Dear"... Sayang or …start by cintah sayah

 

Ideas… any  comment? Welcome

Communication > Honesty > Commitment.

Question: what friends you search in encounters:

a- Net-friend for net friendship= artificial = not for me!

b- Net friends gearing multiple friends= fear, dual-ship, infatuation?

c- Are you able to gear from: from simple relationship, to attain an extraordinary partnership: live together: solely with Him?

d- Set a Duet with Him, settle with Him? It’s far and away from easy life, what is hard stands long! What comes fast fades fast!

 

I am not into Low minded people. Multi Encounters guys, Multi-partners guys…! I am into stable relationship.

Before you send a heart:

Answer to yourself theses questions about what and how you wish to live.

e- I gear for relationship, seek a stable companionship.
f- Seeking exclusive companions and friend not just for chat!
g- You wish more then step closer and ask me=MSN with me

My Motto: I believe a gay relationship isn’t different from a straight one, that is: two persons falling in love, commit to a long term, monogamous relationship. I don’t subscribe to the idea that as gays, we should be open to the idea of open-relationships or to cheat behind our partner's back.

 

 

My hope …Is all I can give you

..... is to .....wake up every morning with me by your side

..... is to .....listen to your heart beats within your loving arms

..... is to .....share the little daily things with you

..... is to .....give you my LOVE and grow old with you

..... is to .....LOVE YOU with a LOVING HEART.

 

There’s a lot I can say and there’s a lot I don’t have to say! Discover me! I’m not superficial. The way to really get to know someone is by talking. Please send a message.

There's a random idea that popped up when I was on my way home in the subway. Actually, why do I need Fridae?

 

I still remember I joined Fridae last 6 years the reason was because of my friend's persuasion to see, test what kind of 'market' in this community. I  NEVER found the answer. Professionally speaking that is…

 

However, to search for a person who I can develop something deeper than mere friendship? I guess  so-so, since I never believe the internet. Why am I still hanging here like a drifter? It's just because I’m one of them who probably has lost the interest and motivation to actually look for love. Our existence here is literally a hope of colliding with someone who breaths the same air. A hope is still a hope, when will it become a reality? However, holding my hope firmly is what I can do now... even though the air is thin, I know you are breathing the same air now.

 

"Friendship" - excerpt from The Prophet by Kahlil Gibran.

"And a youth said, Speak to us of Friendship.
And he answered, saying:
Your friend is your needs answered.
He is your field which you sow with love and reap with thanksgiving.
And he is your board and your fireside.
For you come to him with your hunger,

and you seek him for peace.
When your friend speaks his mind:

you fear not the "nay" in your own mind,

nor do you withhold the "ay".
When he is silent your heart ceases not to listen to his heart;
For without words, in friendship, all thoughts, all desires, all expectations are born and shared, with joy that is unclaimed.
When you part from your friend, you grieve not;
For that which you love most in him may be clearer in his absence, as the mountain to the climber is clearer from the plain.
Let there be no purpose in friendship save the deepening of the spirit.
For love that seeks aught but the disclosure of its own mystery is not love but a net cast forth: and only the unprofitable is caught.
And let your best be for your friend.
If he must know the ebb of your tide, let him know the flood also.
For what is your friend that you should seek him with hours to kill?
Seek him always with hours to live.
For it is his to fill your need, but not your emptiness.
And in the sweetness of friendship let there be laughter, and sharing of pleasures.

 

In my life I learned how to love, to smile, to be happy, to be strong, to work hard, to be honest, to be faithful, to forgive,

But: I couldn't learn how to stop remembering you! There are many stars but the moon is you! There are many friends: but the best is you

To forget me that's up to you,

To forget you I will never ever do!

You may be out of my sight but not out of my heart

You may be out of my reach but not out of my mind

I may mean nothing to you but

You will always be special to me!

M

 

How to be Optimal…without twitching without getting dreamy means awake …REAL!!!

Friends …Buddies  Every one…
When you are sending a love sign? A kiss a heart here or there …
All these sign have the same value right ?

Why won’t we further by chat:: Google talk? MsN? Skype, Cam to Cam, welcome !!!

I can call you and chat openly… E-mail by earliest opportunity to get hi format & resolution photos from you! >>Gmail & Google-TALK >> mikael.urbach@Gmail.com hotmail: mikael_urbach@hotmail.com <

I seek… a nice group of friends… People that wish to share, show about them… speak openly about all subjects all sort of interests…

I seek as well a friends small group… a few guys that knows what is my working fields as many of our predecessors give them the push in their career id they can be freelance at first? Share all intimate circle… discovering our common values how, what we can interact inter-do for each of these privileged group…

Now of course I seek a BF, a person that share life, happiness together with me…but without hiccups, no wicked games N proposition + multi partners like then big confusion…

I like people that are culture minded, that can sing, play musical instrument, lover of music history, love to discover now Asian Countries and culture as well warmly recommended step by one of my best Buddy...

As well I remark when you speak about studies elaborate; don’t just tell me I’m student tell me what career you wish to go for…

when you speak about friends elaborate as well about your vision of BF and partnering: what you like to do in free time and etc …

we have so many subjects to Dig, we have till October to preliminaries after I will settle in Kuala Lumpur around October 15th… then; now up to you act; I be there at Skype+ MsN + Google talk … 

One remark I avoid gaydar website, I have friends who are very important for me they are my unreachable Dream? Heeh no I prefer Fridae + AXCEST personal choice…

What I can’t be is a “Dad”… “Sugar Daddy” it’s not my role as Dad, Sugar Daddy not my cup of tea, I really prefer to build a generous duet stable relationship… as well I won’t reply to MB and E-boys ( entertainment and money boys …please spare your and my time you might feel bad to be in my company…)

 I sealed a lot in past with a few very important person, an undeniable seal of friendship exist and is not negotiable …  there a small group of friends I will never sacrifice for any Lover how aesthetic/ wit minded/ and successful he may be there alienations you can’t sacrifice…

I am forthright, ask my buddies I am very honest I ain’t a star and I come to Malaysia ti immerse into Asian Life and I do it because this is a wow I made to someone long long time ago… I like prowess, I like people that can jump off the bed and fly to a nice place and enjoy it and not let people disaggregate our together I as well love Cat &  Dogs  and probably I will crazily adopt this companion… so be told: no question about my close friends and no silly question like either Your Dog or Cat…or Either your ex … or me you know what will be the answer …so be prepared for this …

To contact me easy I use my real name…
mikael.urbach@gmail.com
msn…now using mikaelurbach@Hotmail.com it will change early September…
for SKYPE: axxium1…
for mms & sms use this number +33 637 637 008

be welcome to my life …a message from you would be nice go…

cheers!!!!